Hi Rysin, that sounds fair enough to me. You dealt with it in an authentic way, and with integrity & respect for her. Really the message was - hey, it just doesnt work for me to be text-chatting daily (like close friends or spouses) when you are in a new R. That's fair enough I think.

The only tiny tweak I would suggest is the 'loving for ever' comment, but I think it is okay to say you love her & you accept and are ok with your lives moving apart.

She clearly received and understood the message and it will be interesting to see what transpires now. She may well have some withdrawal from the texting back and forth to you. Maybe you'll receive nothing for a while now - or maybe some doggy communications. Either way, I hope you are building a happy life for yourself over there and making new friends.

Take care xx

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