same - i had 7yr R before my W and I although I wasn't comparing I had a point of reference.
It's hard for me too accept, but in a way I knew it years ago - contributing to my "depression". Another obstacle which I know shouldn't concern me - or at least I should be happy for her - she is IN LOVE w OM, with excitement that she never showed with me. She ended her M for it with two little girls. Must be amazing. Actually she even yelled at me once how amazing he is. Whether it lasts or not shouldn't bother me I guess. I still struggle with this, but I am not overwhelmed by it anymore.
I too am looking forward to a future R where this is a "feature". And I am becoming comfortable with the idea that I am indeed loveable, which makes this all feel like climbing out from under a rock.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
