If he doesn't it will.be his loss. It may take longer with OW but I think you are on track. Even if he stays blinded you know it is the best option for you and also best chance for ye. Time will tell. Good luck
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together