If he doesn't it will.be his loss. It may take longer with OW but I think you are on track. Even if he stays blinded you know it is the best option for you and also best chance for ye. Time will tell. Good luck


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together