Merckx, thanks for dropping by. I had planned saying hi on your thread as I do see some similarities. I'll post there shortly. I agree whereas my situation does not have the drama, spew, BS etc that others experience, it is far from painless. Yes I guess I too would like the vets to tell me what they see. From experience they must see more than us.
ThanksHuddy. Yeah I follow your situation too, even ifmosly without saying much.
sparkler, I will check out your thread soon and comment if I have anything helpful to say. I would be interested to know how my posts encourage you and also what progress you see. I doubt you are right in my situation, I don't think she is interested. Maybe by retrying it will break the limbo, but most likely by rejection..... again. I have nit pressured her over this. The last time we had any R talk (Feb) I said I only resisted being physicalwith her because it was what she seemed to want. She said sexual side of things will be last to come back.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together