Been over 2 weeks in and have stopped all contact with H unless it is about finances. I haven't paid solicitors yet but will do so.

Reading Sandis LBH thread. I wished I read this earlier, never thought H was a WH until I got back to the UK. I always felt it was because of my 'issues'

Beginning to see what you have all been saying, Pyrite, Huddy. I need him to miss me and see what he will lose. I can't say that I don't feel some anxiety about that. What if H never does? I know that it wouldn't of been so easy for him to let me go if it wasn't for his daily fix from OW.

Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15