Good morning everyone, I figured I will update everyone on my sitch. I weighed everyone's ideas and input and I came to the conclusion I was going to be open and honest with W about the texting constantly. I told her that I appreciated her checking in on me when I moved away and making sure that I got settled in without issues but as of lately I have noticed she is constantly texting me. I continued by saying that at this time she has chosen her path, and all this contact is not helping me move forward on my path. I stayed open with her I felt it was the right thing to do. I told her that I still loved her and I probably always would but that I have accepted and ok with our lives now moving apart. and if she understands where I'm coming from then she knows always hearing from her is not helping my sitch.
I told W I don't mind a check in every once in a while but I do not want her contacting me daily. I expressed to her that if she needs to contact me about the dogs that I will be available 24/7. She started crying and said she understands, I thanked her for everything and her understanding of my feelings and we said goodbye. That was a very tough conversation but I know it was for the best. I feel this action draws a line in the sand. before I would just communicate back and forth with her as buddies. Now she realizes we can't be just buddies.
I will keep everyone posted on the next few weeks. Please feel free to critique my approach and give me pointers I could have done better.
