hold on!! - 12

[asitis]

I don't read what you are reporting as a bad sign from your W, so just listen and validate. She is having to wake up to the reality of what she has wanted and choices she has made. You've now given her in a sense what she says she wants. She may be learning the "Be careful what you ask for" lesson. Plus, shifting blame isn't all that new to you now,is it?

Let things continue to develop and see what patterns might be forming.