You guys are pretty tough on the BD slip ups... understandable. Its just so hard to break old habits. I am getting better. I asked to take the girls away for 2 days and am getting pushback. She is trying to tell me its the girls decision but they sounded very excited about it when I first brought it up to them. Now they are saying just one night is enough. This was the same trip we used to do as a family and they loved every minute. Something does not seem right here.


M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation