No, I understand perfectly. You trusted her and she took advantage.

For you to trust her to continue to come into your house because you don't think you're further exposed or because you lock up other things...that is foolish.

What if she plants a recording device in the bedroom and living room, then uses this information to destroy you in court. Or some recording keystroke devise on your computer. Do you think this is impossible? Do you think she wouldn't do this?

How many more times does she have to prove she is dangerous before you take this seriously?

Listen, I'm all about not escalating the situation, I don't believe in preemptive aggression, I'm not suggesting you get adversarial. But if I were in your shoes I'd make darn sure you were 110% protected.

Yes, she'll throw stones and get angry and blame you. She'll do that anyway.

Please read my post and Bob's post from the prior page. This is STANDARD. You need to believe us that this is coming. First LBH's don't see BD coming. Then they don't believe their WAW could be having a PA. Then they don't believe they'd be dishonest...by the time they realize what they're dealing with they've been bamboozled.

You can take it or leave it, I just can't watch what I know is coming without trying to shout 'look out!'

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Last edited by Zues126; 09/02/15 04:47 AM.

Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15