Thank you Vanilla! I appreciate your thoughts and kindness.
I spoke to my D today and she said she was going to wait until her dad contacted her to speak to him again. I told her that I loved her and that I would say a prayer for her. But you are right, it is their R and they need to discuss it.
I saw a post you wrote on Zelda's page regarding forgiveness. I believe you provided the name of a book you had read about forgiveness. Would you be willing to share that again? I'm having some difficulty with the concept of forgiveness and thought what you wrote to Zelda was interesting.