Hi Rottzilla! I've been following your post & find it rather inspiring... I think it's great you guys are intimate - IMO I think it brings people closer together - sep or not. I've also battled with this for the past 5 mos. My H has OW & we've been sep for 5 mos. We still ML - even though at times I feel I shouldn't - our connection is so intense that I don't want to stop doing the one thing that brings us so much closer. I've decided to follow my heart & continue - but with caution - for obvious reasons (H's intimacy with OW being primary reason). My H sometimes keeps his eyes open & I've questioned it? H says that he likes to look at my expressions just to make sure that I am enjoying myself & to make sure that he's doing a good job - go figure - he's considerate enough to care if I'm enjoying myself - which is good I suppose.
I think if your H is still choosing to ML then take it as a good thing & don't push the issue. Enjoy the ML & work on other aspects as well - but don't let that be your main DB technique.
Keep posting & asking the questions that we would ALL love to ask but are afraid to!
