Had a great day at the bookstore yesterday. Really busy with people and we had a bank holiday offer on too. Seriously, volunteering there has helped me such a lot and I have met some great people.

Today was back to paid work, an early start and travelling. So it's been a long day for me. Just relaxing back at home now with a glass of wine. Tomorrow is a day off, and I'm going to the drumming circle in the evening, so that should be good. I read a bit about drumming and it is supposed to induce euphoria......so I'll let you know.... wink I'm also off to a psychic supper with a friend on Thurs and then to 'proms in the park' with my social group on Sat...busy GAL week for me.

All quiet on the legal and H front. I'm expecting to hear back from my L at some point on the financials, but for now I've responded to her emails. I also expect to get actual D papers at some point soon. What I had before was a draft and I was just being consulted about the contents. I'm all business now WRT the D.

Since I heard that OW was still on the scene as of a couple of months ago, she has beeen more on my mind. It makes me realise that I had got to a point of thinking much less about her. But that has increased again - unwelcome and I need to manage that.

A while ago I heard that H's sister was trying to fix him up with a friend of hers & I was pretty upset about that. But actually, I then thought that people who love H may be concerned about the choice he's making with OW. She had an A with one guy that broke up his M. Then she cheated on him with H. The first guy is now following her round the globe, hoping to win her back.....she's not someone you'd want your brother to fall for. Does that just sound judgmental? IDK - somehow I just can't summon up any good feeling towards her.

Other than that all is good. I discovered a new crime author this week and am all stuck into one of her novels...yay!!

Hope you guys have a good week xx

Last edited by Sotto; 09/01/15 07:11 PM.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus