I agree with what you are saying Mozza. I think the difference in my thinking now is I was treated very badly by my ex. He betrayed the only person who stood by him through many of his own personal life stresses. It should be him wanting to show me that life with him would be different and not the other way around.
Once you don't care so much about the out come it can be liberating.
Cheers,
Karma
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.