Ep, it's pretty common in a D to use our kids as an excuse to do what we want. (It's best for them, really......) So your H might be doing that. But I know you aren't, and that's where the expertise of Dr. C is going to come in. Breathe, hang in there, and be grateful that you and H and Dr C are going to work this out together instead of some judge in a courtroom that isn't trained to deal with children and that's never met any of you. Let us know how it goes, please.
