Us guys love our caves and are really grouchy if we are disturbed in them. There's no coaxing us out you've simply got to wait until we've worked the problem through in our heads (and it may take us a while because we aren't female :-) ) and then we'll want to talk about it, so be ready. Don't under any circumstance when we do start to speak interrupt or say things like, it's taken you that long to get to there!? Just listen, be patient and validate you'll be rewarded handsomely.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?