Don't try to predict or mind read your H, do what you feel is the right thing to do.
Going out with your friends is a fab idea. Enjoy yourself and make sure the focus is on having fun and pampering yourself.
Sure there will be some sad moments, keep them to a minimum as otherwise you are letting your H spoil your time with your friends, which you wouldn't have accepted in previous times so why allow it now?
Have you considered trying to see the sad thoughts as clouds drifting into your awareness and watching them float away or as images moving across a big cinema screen, appearing on one side and drifting across and off the other side. This type of gentle technique will help you to stop being overcome by your emotions and keep you enjoying yourself.
Have a great time.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
