Deb, before the bomb, H would look in my eyes and touch and kiss and everything.
After the bomb Aug '03, we had a lot of sex, but I iniatiated it all. Shortly after that (a few weeks) all contact stopped. Even hugs.
After finding DB, in Feb, contact started again. But, it's not normal contact, it's that hesitant contact with many, many rules to follow that I describe.
PT is my primary LL, followed by WofA. My H has been giving me the words lately, but PT is so lacking.
I feel like Dazed said on his thread. I know I am getting sex, but I need ML. I'm not getting my PT needs fulfilled. I know, it's all about them right now, not about what we want or need.
I'm just trying to figure out what H is doing so I can be Patient.
I really want to understand a guy's point of view. As silly as that sounds. Some insight. (Thanks to all of you guys who have responded so far.)
