Not nice beckyb. How about considering it your low point for the day and everything else will be better?
My DB coach said that if I feel like it's right to send my wife a note on our anniversary (that's soonish) saying something simple like "today was a special day for us and I was just thinking about you", nothing more no question, just a heart reaching out to a heart.
Remember, little things make the difference, there are no seismic events, or they are very rare. In the same way the two of you fell in love it was a gradual process there were no (or few) massive shift just one day a realisation of how you felt. The DB process is similar, it may take a little longer that's all.
The coach also took pains to say that I may not get a response and to be OK with that, which is why I said "if you feel it's right" for you above, be prepared to be be blanked not let it affect you, if you go ahead with something similar.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
