Originally Posted By: fdu
Now my feeling about my wife have gone all over the board. Sometimes it's love, sometimes it's hate.

Thats why we try not to act on feelings. Just because you feel something today doesnt mean it will be the same in an hour or a day or a month. Make your actions based on logic and your goals.

Originally Posted By: fdu
Working toward Peace.

NO!!
Work toward your goals.

Peace is good. But peace does not necessarily mean progress.

So what do you really WANT? Are the paths toward PEACE toward your GOALS the same? If they are, great....work toward peace.

If not, you may be headed the wrong way.