When is kindness enough?

[Ripe]

Can't my wife realize it's what is she doing to the kids?

In her opinion it is not about the kids. Everything is about what she wants in that instant (and subject to change without notice).

I am in shock.
W is already abroad since 25 August.
School starts next Monday and the kids and I are flying this Saturday.
W has just told me she has changed her mind and will no longer be staying abroad one more year.
She is right now preparing everything to come back to our home country and is actively searching for a school for the kids.
I am holding an emergency family meeting to discuss my options with my family.
This morning W informed me she had gone to the school to ask for the return of the tuition.
I told W to wait one day for my answer and to not do anything until then.