Quote: How about 5 minutes of wrist holding with quiet eye contact?
Renew, all I can say to you and to wrist holding in general is
Dazed, thanks for your frankness. I have heard from guy friends that there's a difference between sex and ML. I guess I just didn't believe H could feel like he was just having sex with me. Of course it's possible, and even probable, that this is how he views it.
Actually, I think it may be how he views it. I have made a big deal out of us just being friends, and so he has felt free from that point on to ML with me. I had hoped that ML would somehow draw us closer, as we used to do it quite a bit in the beginning of our R. But, it's been weeks and he is still not testing the waters, so to speak, during sex. So, it must be "just sex" to him. Sigh... Next goal, that one is destroyed now.
Sad, Thanks so much for asking your H, that was really nice of you. I think, like Dazed, you and your H may be dead on. I hope that tunnel under his wall winds up weakening it and it falls crashing to the ground.
I really want H to feel something for me, but I am beginning to despair about this avenue. I really liked this avenue, though.
