We have that stipulation too, but first day of school is a funny one. We are allowed to attend any appointments and events regardless of whose day it is, but the first day of school is kind of iffy.
He does not want me at the house at all. We have been doing all of the kid exchanges in parking lots so there is no way he will let me in to help see them off--or even in the parking lot. I don't even think I am allowed to visit my neighbors who live in that housing complex. I was advised to make plans with them in other locations. Hopefully all of that will be cleared up after our next court date. H was a real piece of work, working the system to isolate me as much as possible. His girlfriend has been through it recently and knows all of the dirty tricks, apparently. And she managed to turn a decent man into this nasty individual.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
