So I continue to see NG. .... Our relationship is real. We get along well, kids are like long-lost brothers and sisters. What I love about my life now is that everything is real. Nothing is pretend. Nothing is "for appearances only". I can be me, he can be himself .... I will see her soon and she needs to spend time with daddy. All the while knowing her daddy won't be around much. It breaks my heart, but there is nothing I can do.
So I guess my advice to newbies is listen to the vets on this board. They know what they are talking about. It takes time, but you eventually get there. But you have to MAKE yourself get there. And it ain't easy, that's for sure.
Peace out, WH
I think that when we can be 'real' with someone else that we are really very lucky. We are all not the same people to begin with so compatibility often plays a role of course. Values may conflict, judgements can be made, lack of understanding simply b/c upbringing is so different sometimes. Being with someone else takes work. Feeling that you can be yourself is 'not to be taken for granted.
I was very happy to read of your update!! Thanks for sharing with us, everyone loves a happy ending.
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
