Haven't y'all gardened together before? Go over just before she puts them to bed for a nap & asked her to help or show spots to work on etc. There's your in. Work in the same vicinity. Double bonus of bonding teamwork & her sharing her research with you.
At first I was thinking you were using a euphemism for having sex in the "haven't y'all gardened together before?" Esp.with the when kids go to bed part (and I wish they would nap still). Shows where my mind is. Then again I just spent 4 hours surrounded by attractive 23-25 year olds wearing short skirts or leggings.
Seriously, we haven't had any real opportunities to do anything together of late except around child hand-off.
I did tell her I was interested in hearing more about her research sometime when we wouldn't be interrupted or distracted by the boys.
I'll just let that brew for a while, then find the opportunity to see if I can peak her interest to initiate further talk.
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