The first step to healing is admitting there is a problem. So here we go. The problem is mine to own. I can only own my half and I can only control my half. I admit and accept I am controlling, negative, co-dependent, an Adult Child of An Alcoholic, Sexual Abuse survivor, Physical and mental Abuse Survivor, Depressed, Angry, Anxious, Poor at making decisions, not a present parent, over weight, finanically and emotionally dependent!I know sounds like I was really hard on myself but I am not being hard on myself I am digging deep looking at ME and this shall help me set my goals. If I know what I accept is wrong I know I can choose to dig deeper and work on me instead of focusing on the R or lack there of! So Goal time!