HI Sunny Thanks thats my plan GET HEALTHY! learn boundaries.
V- Family structure he has 2 D's two different moms both between times we dated. One mom he was engaged to she cheated on him and they split up. We share his two kids 50/50 with their moms. My D is with us all but every other weekend. Family structure is my D's biological dad is not in the picture My ex is her dad and takes care of her as if she was his own. Both other parents are in the picture. Why leave the home? At some point I will have no choice his mom owns the home we have been purchasing from her so it is in neither of our names I am sure she will allow him to stay. You are right I should not just let him move her in. I am fine with staying it does not bother what I am doing half to most of the time but I do feel I am getting stronger not allowing him to control my emotions. In fact today he said something about his GF and I just went straight to a different conversation. did not even skip a beat. I am sure once tax time comes he will be making me leave but until then at least I dont have to add stress of bills to the mix and adjusting kids.
Zeus He wont change his mind until something happens between them if he changes his mind then. I agree it is a who he is thought. Plus I am sure there is guilt about the divorce, about our R, about our Kids, her kids are involved, plus fun and games no responsibility. IF he changes his mind I will choose to be strong enough to make a rational decision based on his willingness to work on things and change what is not working. If he is not I will hopefully be strong enough by then to say no!
