If you're still accidentally getting texts meant for OM then what on earth would you be hanging around for? There's nothing fuzzy happening there. She's just being manipulative in my view.
(I'm glad your name popped up, I've been wondering how you are.)
You have a tough, tough choice in front of you. My family has put a lot of pressure on me to relocate out of state to be closer to them. I couldn't do that to my kids -- but I'm well supported here, and I like it where I am. If I had the choices you have? I'd probably go.
But I think you need to take a little more charge of your situation. Get the lawyer. Make things work. You've done a good job of that up to now. Keep the momentum going.
And lay off the alcohol! Your son has made it clear how he feels about that. You're better than that.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
