Quote: OK, how many guys agree with the Hite Report statement that men feel closer to their sig others through ML?
Well, I'm not a guy, but my dh said he "felt guilty" ML with me when he wasn't feeling love for me. Of course, since he dropped the bomb and moved out, we ML constantly and he doesn't hold back, but he still isn't "in love" with me, so who the hell knows??
Quote: And, if you think it's true that a man feels love through ML, then what do you think about my H's behavior?
I think though sex and love aren't necessarily linked in a guy's mind, it is much different when he's in love with the person he's ML to. It hasn't been all that long since he dropped the bomb on you, rotzilla (there's that P work again). He's probably still confused, still working things out, still wondering if he can "love" you again the way he used to. If he caresses you and kisses you and all of that, it's much more intimate than just sex. He may be afraid that it will create feelings in him he's not sure he wants -- or afraid that it won't.
Quote: Am I wasting my time ML with H?
PATIENCE, woman! Look at Betsey --she's been waiting 18 months for her h to come around. I'm not saying you'll have to wait 18 months, but it hasn't even been two has it? I have the same problem with lack of patience, but you CAN'T rush it. Susan
