It wasn't a great conversation at all. She was extremely cold. Probably the coldest she has been. I really cannot understand it. I tried to establish a boundary but it was more pleading on my part. I asked her why she didn't speak to me at the AP or even look at me. She sort of laughed and said I avoided her. I said it was because I was nervous with her Mom there after the email she sent saying that I was "butting in". Not a good call, not a good night. I just feel like she hates me and I don't deserve it.


M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation