4my.

I think you have this slightly backwards. DB says nothing about 'buying time' and 'hanging in'. It's not about outlasting an A. My WH was a womaniser too, I recognise the pattern.

It's about you, doing that which works for you, because it grows you and develops you. It makes you strong.

You were very young (17) when you got with this man, you have a child and he has two. It sounds as if you have been hanging on for a long time.

What is the family structure?

Were you apart?

Do all of the kids live with you?

Why would you leave the home to let him and his gf live there?

V


Last edited by Vanilla; 09/01/15 12:11 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW