I agree with Zues what you have is a casual R not a committed one.

He is a completely free agent to do as he pleases, and you have an open R with this man. You and he have no bonds. He is a player and a serial one.

You describe him as cheating on OW with you so clearly in OW eyes, you are the OW and she is the gf. She seems to be his gf in your eyes. That's crazy!

You should be making changes for you, not so he can see them. It's casual, which is fine if casual is what you want. Although I guess because you are here that isn't.

Please google triangulation and infidelity, it's an ego game for the guy or gal in the lead on the triangle.

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Last edited by Vanilla; 08/31/15 11:21 PM.
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