I believe my H is very confused and frustrated as well. At BD he told me he has been always angry due to this. It's very typical of him too that he does not want to deal with problems wishing they will go away on their own somehow. I have been always a "fixer" and my urge to help him sort things out is great, but I know only H can decide what he wants to do. So I am trying to give him time and space...A lot of self-control!
