We are on the brink

[WhyUs]

Jenny,

You are not the reason it hurt my heart. It is just that I am going through this and feel what I am reading sometimes. I hope that you are able to get through to your husband.

Money is such a stressful thing in many marriages. I handled the money in my marriage and my WW said the same things that your husband says. I hated handling the money. I asked her several times to just take over. She never would. Now, she accuses me of controlling her by not letter her spend money. No matter how many times I tried to tell her something is not in the budget she would think I was trying to control her. She said she hated always having to ask me for money. Yet, she never made any effort to work on the budget or keep up with expenses...so frustrating.