Hi Pink great post and I'm very grateful for your taking time to help me
I really get the detachment part. Since EXW left I have detached completely. I have not called or texted her in 11 months I do answered calls and texted and I do act as a friendly neighbour. We do have R talks but only about why she left and we talk about the kids. I have asked EXW not to text me re her sadness and I have told her I'm not her friend
I have got on with my life and dress much smarter , spends huge time with my kids , and do all the housework , cooking etc. we go out a lot more and have become a close knit unit.
EXW is now on anti Ds and seems to be happier but is still living in a one bedroom flat with very little money.
I don't hang around when she's in the house and only really see her on a sat and Sunday. I'm not always here when she is.
I'm not sure what I can do differently as it seems EXW still cares for me , has nothing bad to say about me and takes her responsibility in the M breakdown She is obviously very unhappy with her life and although she has come forward a few times he has not said anything about reconciling.
I think she is accepting her new life and just feel out of love. As we all know you can't make someone love you
I have read others posts and I am guilty of no longer improving I could be a lot fitter and while I'm not unfit I could improve my stamina Also I'm not concentrating on my business as I should. It's do ok but it not exactly cash rich and I tend to spend all I have
Goals are something I will think on
Thanks for posting Pink. You are missed and it would be great to read an update
