Thanks for your note. I thought I was over the anger stage but she keeps doing things that are so insensitive and mean. Totally unlike her and why it hurts me so much. She got off the plane and wouldn't even look at me, not a word. How does any human being go from being loving and adoring one week to a cold hearted insensitive _____ the next? How can you take and enjoy a 30 day vacation to Europe paid for by someone else and not even say a simple thank you. On top of that, "forget" to give them the flight time so they could pick you up at the airport. On top of that, make her mother drive in a storm with many traffic lights out to pick her up? I cannot begin to fathom her. I realized the other day that literally everyone in her family has separated from their spouses and do not ever speak with them after the split. They all act like they hate their ex spouses. It all comes from the mother, she is a real piece of work. Its like W wants the conflict, wants the drama, wants to whine and moan to her family and friends about what a bastard her husband was/is. This was 100% her choice. Ending things this way is 100% her choice. I spent the first 2 months trying to convince her not to do this, the harder I tried the meaner she became. From what I can see there is no way I can end this amicably and have a shred of self respect. She is treating me like I was the worst husband imaginable. Our girls see her treating me this way and are drawing the conclusion that I must have done something horrible. No one has had any in depth discussion with them so that is all they can think. Why is she being such a cold hearted _____? How long does this last?
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
