V - this feels like great advice in this situation. I feels like you (duke) are here telling us how things arent fair or how W is doing this or that or how you cant believe this is happening and such. It feels (at least to me anyway), that you believe that this is something that will blow over. Whether its 30 days or another few weeks or whatever, but it feels like to me, that you believe if you put your head down, that eventually things will come back to normal.
I could be totally wrong. Thats just what your postings suggest to me.
I hope that her reaction at coming home will spur you to action.