Yep I know sometimes you just need to read the words that you provided me with.
I see you are proceeding with D. Hope it is going well.
my problem is I want to move on I have even found someone who I enjoy talking to and I know is very interested in me. My problem is I can't go forward there until I am sure my M is dead in the water. I would like to say yeah I am done and over it but it would be a lie because if there is the smallest chance then I want it. I think the reason I have lately been scrutinizing H is to see if there is any hope.
the only thing I see is that he is making the separation more formal by instead of coming and spending time at our house he is asking to pick up S and take him away and bringing him back. He has stopped helping around the house. I do get text messages from re our S and if he can or cannot pick him up.
So maybe that is my proof that it is dead and gone even if he hasn't actually filed for the D. Thoughts?
