Sandi2 thank you for time and generosity in answering my questions and sharing. Knowing one is not alone and "it's been done before" does wonders for my perseverance...

Me:43 W:38
M:10 T:11
D:10 S:8
BD: 1/1/15
Sep:4/1/15
D filed: 8/12/15
1st court date: 9/22/15