DBing still......WW still (Part 2)

[HurtJef]

My sd spent the night at my MILs b/c she refused to come home.

Thursday....WW went in for surgury...I texted and said that I hope all goes well...got a simple thanks back. Then she asked how I was feeling after the whole SD thing. I texted that I didn't want to talk about it. She left it at that. Until later.

WW texted around noon and said that the lump is a tumor. They need to put her under and postponed surgury until next month. Of course this upsets me...for obvious reasons. I called her just to tell her that I will pray and keep me posted. She didnt seem to upset.

Later on Thursday WW calls me. She tells me that she got into SDs phone and read SD and BF messages. Turns out that the abuse claim was all a plan so that SD would have to live at WWs. Reason being, BF has been sneaking over late nights after WW falls asleep and having sex with my SD. They wanted that to be a more common occurrence apparently.

As WW is telling me this, I am sliding into more of a depression. I didn't know what to say. WW started yelling at me to let her in....that she is here to comfort me during this. I felt sick. I told her that I didn't want her comfort and that I would appreciate some space while I deal with this betrayal.

This didnt sit well with her. She told me that I was turning my back on my daughter and leaving this all in her lap. I told her that I wasnt but I wasnt gonna be treated this way by her either. Ww told me to grow the F up and hung up on me.

When I got home....ww was there waiting to talk to me. She tried to hug me and hold my hand multiple times and I pushed her away. She left upset. I told her that I am open to talking about SD but not about my feelings to WW.

Friday I heard nothing all day...texted WW to see if she picked up SD from school. She said that she was at work and SD was taking the bus to my house so sd could watch the younger kids when they got home. I was mad. After all of this she was trusting my sd to be home alone for an hour before my younger kids got home.....without a phone to boot!

I called my MIL and she went over there.

WW picked up the kids without saying a word to me. I went over a friends house to lick my wounds. Around midnight I got an alert that My WW emptied her checking account at the local casino ATM. Apparently she got a babysitter and went out with friends. Ok.

Saturday....WW texts me to pick up the kids at 10am. She is supposed to have them until she goes to work at 6. She said she had things to do. Told her that I was sorry but I wasnt home and would pick them up around 3. I also told her that i would pick them up between 3 and 4 from now on for my Saturdays with them.

She responded with spew, saying that she has been very easy on me and that I should pick them up whenever she asks me to. I reiterated that from now on...3 or 4.
Picked them up at 3. WW sent the kids out and I didnt see her. Haven't heard a peep since.

Had a long talk with SD. She said that she was desperately sorry that she hurt me. I told her that I loved her and that we will work through this but she needs to earn my trust back.

This morning WW showed up to pick up D3 driving OMs car.

I am still very depressed