Hi 4, I'm just throwing this out there for you to think about. You say that he is calling OW his GF yet still ML to me. But also, he is calling OW his GF and you are still ML to him.

How do you feel about that from a self-respect and a health perspective? I'm not judging - please don't think that. But I do think it is important to think about this area.

IMHO, it would be perfectly reasonable to say to him you don't want to ML, given his ongoing R with OW. Does ML actually perpetuate this repeating pattern of cheating in your R?

Just some food for thought anyway 4. Take care xx

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