You're not out of time, dear. You're just filling your time with activities that you believe your H expects from you.
Well, girlfriend, now is the time to hang up that hat and just veg out. Do yourself a favor and make a list of things to do today. Here's the catch: only put one thing that is related to the household (grocery shopping, 1 load of laundry, etc.). I want to see some things that are you related in a warm and fuzzy way.
No comfort food... only comfort tasks.
Make sense? You're not out to win a race, Rott. That means that everything has a time and a place, including chores. Chores suck!
Hugs to you today,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."