hey rotz: I love you new plan! and yes, get a life of your own a back off a bit. I was so pressured and when people are pressured, they do things they normally wouldn't do. Work on yourself. Always being their cheerleading isn't necessarily a good thing-just adds to the pressure. I never asked ex how his day went. I strated everynight when he came home, how was your day, after about two weeks of it he was like okay enough already I get your point!
