It sounds like she is still in a fog in some ways. H said many strange things that made me wonder if he had become insane. Just give it time... Her suggesting MC is great!
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17