When we got back things warmed up a bit. Not a lot but noticeably warmer.

There was talk of projects around the house etc and nit just in the immediate. Before I took these as great signs but now it vexs me that she thinks things can go on for much longer like this.

Last night I mentioned my friends wedding back home. No negativity and looks like she willing is going. Later in the week I want to book so we will see how that pans out. I definetely want to go with her but not if she is like she was recently.

If she shows no signs of reluctance , hesitance or other indication she doesn't want to go, I will book it and then have another date in the future to aim for. I will not pressure her or insist she comes.

W will be starting a new job this week. Went to sign contract today. She wore her rings. She didn't on our trip, but she never liked wearing them when hot and humid due to fingers swelling. As we were going to see my fily that was dissapointing but not a big deal.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together