Yeah, this is a loss unlike anything I've experienced. Since BD my life has been a nightmare.
As time passes it's a nightmare where I get cosy, relax, go with the flow, and am actually doing better than I have before in my life.
But I don't think the loss is something you get over. It's just something you get used to. Like if you lost a child. You're not just going to grieve for a while and then it's ok. It's never going to be ok again...but you still have to live your life because that's the only thing to do. Doesn't mean that you can't live a full and meaningful and happy life, but that loss will always be there.
Divorce just shouldn't be legal...;)
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
