Hi Mozza, just read your post on Raliced's threat about wanting to be better than OM. While I can relate to that, please remember you are the father to these 2 little girls who adore you and also the man she chose to be the father to them. He can never compete with that. His desire to be better than you is probably much greater than yours.
Also, you haven't given any dating updates recently - please do so!
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014