Raliced I can totally relate to that gut-wrenching feeling when you hear things like that - it happens to me all the time. I am still very close to a few of H's close family and they will mention things unintentionally in conversation such as a trip overseas H and OW planned (to a little place I would have loved to visit), or some event they are attending. It's just as if he has a new wife and our marriage never existed.

But maybe D3 has got a little mixed up with things?- but wouldn't it be great to just not care what they were doing? I find it doesn't sting quite so much now, but still just enough to stop me in my tracks for a while.


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014