Any consideration to going to see a professional as a family? Just you and the kids as a way to clear the air? Or is that being handled by your current steps?
From my perspective as an outsider, I see how hard it might be for the girls and you. Especially if other family is involved. I can only imagine how hard it must be.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."