Mozza (13) + Links to success stories

[Mozza]

Thanks all. I find that newcomers are always much more lenient with each other than vets will be. While I agree that this email is not a big deal, it's also a small hint that I'm the same person, resentful of her choices yet available for R. Subtle clues are easily picked up. But it's not the message i should be sending. It doesn't tell her that I'm moving on, nor that I have changed. It tells her that there's a big open door to the hell that she left, while she should feel that there is a door closing to a heaven that she shouldn't have left.

I'll simply say that it's interesting that she argues with me when I call it "her divorce" then will say that she doesn't care. I struck a nerve.

I made great progress on my share of the D procedures on Friday, with the help of my parents who were visiting. Their presence allowed me to focus. I made a few phone calls to government agencies and took notes. I don't think I'll be able to resolve all this by email with WW, mainly because it's a little complex and she is not very good with numbers. I feel good about overcoming the procrastination of the last couple of weeks.