Yes, also for me I think is - anyone else would be better than her. Because that R was formed in deceit and betrayal of me and will always hurt the most. But if that R ends and H takes up with someone else - it's not ideal of course. But it is better than her....
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus